Rain always falls eventually.

Life isn't predictable. However the storms that life gives us can be beautiful things. Sometimes, it's about dancing in the rain. There is always a reason to smile in the rain.

4/28/13

Giving


Maybe I am the weird one, but I find giving to be a great source of joy.

It's even better when you've put time and thought into it, and you can watch their face when they open a gift from you.

Even better still is when they aren't expecting it.

But want to know what the best is?

When they never know it was you.

I don't mean that in a creepy stalker way, just in a "there is nothing more fun than giving secret service" way.

I don't find the joy in getting recognition for the kind things I may or may not do. I love watching someones face when they get something nice from someone and they don't know who it is.

That way, there is no obligation to pay back the person who did something for you. Then if you feel the need to give something, than you have to pay it forward.

Try it sometime, if you are having a bad day. Find someone to do something nice for.

Maybe give that little crying girl a quarter.

Give that friend who did bad on a test a hug.

Take that sick classmate/co-worker some soup or crackers or juice or something.

Being kind and giving doesn't mean big and flashy, or expensive.

The more sincere and from the heart it is, the better.

4/20/13

Little things going right.


So after almost exactly 24 hours of everything going wrong some small things started to go right. And that made it better.

My paycheck came a day early.

I found a friend who was able to drive my car home for me, thus keeping me from a parking ticket AND allowing me to get to my last class on time.

Strawberries were on sale.

So was pineapple/mango salsa.

I had time to take a nap

I actually slept

My roommate started the dishwasher the night before, I had clean spoons.

I learned a new song.

There were no cops around while I was going WAY over the speed limit to get to work while I was running incredibly late.

Sometimes, you just need those little things to make it through the day.

4/10/13

Teachers are human beings


Something so many people seem to forget is that teachers are humans too.

If you will just communicate with them, almost every single teacher I have ever had is willing to break their "no exceptions" policy.

One example, last year in my English class, I managed to pull out a B average grade. I did probably D work. I turned in almost nothing on time and it was nothing close to the best I could do.

My life was also beginning to fall completely apart. Things with school, money, family, friends, I was just trying to stay afloat. I would go to turn in my partial work on time and apologize. I would say "I expect no special treatment, it's not finished, but here is what I do have." Almost every time my teacher would say "Just bring it to me when you are done."

It probably helped that we had journals in that class and a lot of my writing would contain everything that was falling apart around me. So she knew I wasn't just making it up. That, and several people said that I looked like I hadn't smiled in a long time.

I figured she would probably give me a C-, enough to pass me, but really still generous for the work I was doing. Nope, averaged a B. (I don't remember if it was + or -, I just remember the B part.)

I have had several other occasions where teachers have been angels of mercy simply because I communicated my problems to them.

I think that is what we sometimes forget as students, our teachers are these huge scary giants that rule with iron fists. They are human beings. They have to set strict guidelines because so many students will push the limits around, it's just how we tend to work. They also know that "No exceptions" means "No exceptions that will apply to the entire class, but if something extraneous happens, come talk to me and I'm sure we can work something out."

Today, I am just grateful and happy that teachers are human beings.

4/9/13

Rainbow


I saw the most beautiful rainbow this last weekend, while I was driving. I couldn't believe how clear and perfect it was. It was bright and a full rainbow that could be seen from end to end.

It was so beautiful I almost drove off the road, which was not a happy thought. But the happiness is in the sheer beauty that exists around us.

Rain can be so wonderful, but it is always the best when followed by a radiant rainbow that leaves one speechless and in awe.